On this participating and heartfelt episode, Peg Fitzpatrick welcomes Sandra Sallin, an inspiring content material creator who has made waves within the social media world together with her charming YouTube channel. Collectively, they discover the artwork of constructing real connections on-line, Sandra’s distinctive on-camera confidence and the important position well being and group play as we age. The dialog additionally highlights the facility of Sandra’s storytelling on her YouTube channel and the affect of genuine interactions in nurturing a vigorous, supportive group.
Be part of us for a pleasant mixture of knowledge, humor, and motivation to pursue your passions and preserve curiosity at any stage of life.
Prime Takeaways:
- Constructing genuine connections makes an actual affect in social media.
- Pursuing content material creation out of your passions retains it enjoyable and relatable.
- Confidence on digicam can come from treating the viewers like associates.
- Well being consciousness and common check-ups are essential, particularly as we age.
- Neighborhood thrives on significant interactions, not simply likes or numbers.
- Authenticity resonates deeply, fostering viewers loyalty and connection.
- Growing old gracefully will be empowering and encourage others.
- Private tales can uplift and encourage audiences in their very own journeys.
- Curiosity and openness to studying are key to lifelong progress and success.
- Real, private engagement enhances on-line connections and assist.
Chapters:
- 00:00 – Constructing Genuine Connections
- 08:55 – The Journey to Content material Creation
- 17:57 – Authenticity and Confidence on Digicam
- 25:09 – Well being, Growing old, and Neighborhood Constructing
- 34:00 – Empowerment Via Storytelling and Connection
Whether or not you’re beginning out or seeking to reconnect together with your artistic spark, this episode is a reminder that it’s by no means too late to share your voice and make a distinction on-line. Tune in, get impressed, and uncover how Sandra’s journey can encourage you to embrace your path confidently and authentically.
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PODCAST:
Transcript with Audio system Peg Fitzpatrick and Sandra Sallin (that is an AI transcript so it isn’t good)
Peg Fitzpatrick (00:05.038):
Right this moment we’re going to discuss constructing genuine connections with Sandra Sallin, who’s my buddy and he or she’s going to affix us. I will convey her in as quickly as she is right here.
Peg Fitzpatrick (00:27.566):
Thanks for becoming a member of. Let me know the place you guys are. I am gonna strive saying, there we go. Howdy. It labored. Woo, have a look at us doing the web. How spectacular is that? I do know. Wealthy was like, you are going dwell with Sandra. Is it gonna be like six hours lengthy? I am like, no, we’d not do this to folks. So whats up, everyone. I’m Peg Fitzpatrick.
And that is one among my social success sequence. And right now, as I discussed, we’re going to discuss with Sandra Sallin, who’s actually one among my favourite folks on the entire complete planet. And she or he is so inspiring. You guys are going to like listening to what Sandra has to say. So I am very blissful you are right here, Sandra. Thanks. Welcome to my discuss present.
Sandra Sallin:
Is not that enjoyable? I like that concept.
Peg Fitzpatrick
So you’re, as I discussed, so inspiring to me. And a part of that’s since you are an 80, and I am not making a gift of your age, since you say it in your individual bio, however you’re, you have to be. You are an 83-year-old magnificence creator and you’re like a phenomenon on Instagram and YouTube. Individuals love you and your content material. So are you able to inform me what’s impressed your ardour for creating movies and Instagram content material?
Sandra Sallin
It wasn’t actually me. Effectively, initially, do you want me higher with glasses or with out?
Peg Fitzpatrick:
I like each. I imply, for those who want them to see, then depart them on. However I imply, they, you all the time look nice with glasses. I by no means put on mine on-line.
Sandra Sallin:
Alright. Effectively, my husband likes glasses additionally. Yeah. Okay. So what impressed me? I wasn’t impressed. What occurred was my son stated, you have to do movies, mother. And also you stated, you have to do movies, Sandy. And I stated, huh?
I do not know what to do. What am I going to speak about? And so, so I did not and it took me eternally and it was silly as a result of my son at the least as soon as a month would say, you have to do movies, mom. However I actually did not know what I used to be going to speak about. Then do you wish to know extra?
Peg Fitzpatrick (02:49.816):
Maintain going. I am listening.
Sandra Sallin:
Alright. So then what occurred was I watched anyone on YouTube speaking about how for those who’re looking for one thing and also you’re one particular person, you have to know that there are hundreds looking for a similar factor. And what I used to be looking for was make-up for the mature. And I am speaking about actually mature. I am not speaking about these little, these teenager. And your 30s. Yeah, 30s, 40s. My God, I am 50. I am speaking about 60s, 70s and 80s. Yeah. had been lots of people. And I believed, effectively, since I am actually thinking about it, possibly that is what I will do.
Sandra Sallin:
I began with, you will love this, as a result of I like doing Instagram lives as a result of I actually felt like I used to be speaking to folks. So I did one on lipstick and how one can make it extra luscious wanting. And I believed, effectively, I will do one. And folks actually appreciated it. And I believed, huh?
And so they wished extra.
Peg Fitzpatrick:
That is the way it began. Together with your love of lipstick. And by the way in which, everyone, Sandra picked out this lipstick for me. I all the time put on my Chanel. It is the Chanel that you just despatched me as a result of it is the very best shade. It is the very best shade on digicam, actually is.
Sandra Sallin:
You understand what? It appears fabulous together with your jacket.
Peg FItzpatrick:
I did tremendous pink right now. Pink with extra pink. Yeah. I imply, I did not have, I despatched Sandra some pre-questions, however like simply, beginning again, a part of the rationale that your son Matt and I each assume you must go dwell or be on video is as a result of you could have, clearly you could have such an incredible character, however you even have a Hollywood background of digicam expertise and issues that possibly at this stage you were not essentially considering, I was in commercials and I have been in entrance of the digicam, however I feel all of these issues actually, generally are.
The backgrounds do not understand that issues that we have accomplished in our previous relate a lot to what we’re doing now or what, like, you actually began out, you had been gonna be, effectively, we did not even discuss your, your first most important profession was you had been a nice artist. And I do not know if there is a portray proper behind you; assume there’s that approach. Yep. There’s, there’s just a little little bit of one among Sandra’s work. So Sandra was a nice artist for many years. She created like a ravishing artwork. So that is Sandra’s like, subsequent factor. This is rather like a subsequent factor that she’s doing
Peg Fitzpatrick (05:14.69):
However so lots of the different issues that she did in her life, creativity and clearly being an artist is all expression, proper? However a unique approach. So yeah, I feel it prefer it all form of tied into what you do now, regardless that it wasn’t what you probably did in your most important factor.
Sandra Sallin:
A humorous factor, I examine folks, , being concerned about being in entrance of a digicam. I simply by no means was. And I do not even once I did commercials, it was all the time simply actually me and I simply by no means bothered me. I even, , I feel one of many questions possibly was once I discuss on like on YouTube or on Instagram, I am actually speaking to a buddy. It isn’t an entire group of individuals, however I feel that it is one buddy and that I am speaking, we’re out to lunch and we’re having a very nice dialog.
Peg :
So that you form of boiled down what advertising is, regardless that you are not a advertising skilled, like you could have, you’ve got created what they name like your avatar, your like excellent buyer, your excellent consumer, all these issues imply the identical factor, however you want boil that down with out even realizing all of the advertising converse of similar to, I am simply going to deal with like one particular person and you do not assume, that is scary. We’re dwell proper now. And who’s going to see the video? You are similar to, I am wanting on the digicam, having a dialog and it is with
It is nice. Is not that fascinating?
Sandra Sallin:
It’s. And what else is humorous? I discuss quite a lot of issues that lots of people do not wish to discuss or that I am photographed in a approach that no person of their proper thoughts can be photographed. However I do not even assume something of it till I meet anyone they usually know a lot about me and I do not perceive how they know a lot about me, not realizing that I’ve spilled all of it.
Peg:
I do know a few of your YouTube thumbnails crack me up. Your earlier than and after photos are actually the very best. They are surely. Personally would by no means, like I like make-up too. Sandra and I each love make-up. It is one among our little bonding issues, however I’ve by no means filmed something like with no make-up to do like a prepare with me. However a part of that’s folks do not comply with me for that. They’d be like, Who cares? Like we wish to know the advertising facet of issues. So I feel for me, folks can be like, wow, she appears just a little drained right now. Why does she haven’t any shade in her face? Trigger I’ve to say, that is one factor if you’re older shade disappears out of your face. Prefer it’s draining out. I feel, proper?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Sure. do assume. Sure. Effectively, I’ve a girlfriend who owns a make-up firm and he or she was aghast and shocked. What do you imply filming proper after you’ve got had surgical procedure? Are you out of your thoughts?
She was actually, do not do this, do not ever do this. After which she stated, possibly I am improper.
Peg Fitzpatrick (09:54.346):
It is simply, it simply takes braveness, proper? To do the no make-up factor. You understand, you simply should say, what, different folks do it. I imply, I imply, to be trustworthy, like Hannah Martin make-up, she’s anyone that you just love, Hannah Martin. She is so stunningly lovely earlier than with no make-up. After which she places make-up on and he or she’s like,
Sandra Sallin:
Beautiful occasions, every thing. However you, you and I usually are not, Hannah’s in all probability 30s, however I imply, that was some time in the past for us. So, I imply, she does look nice earlier than and after. So we’ll return to our questions daily. And for those who’re watching, I’m going to do a giveaway for my new e-book on the finish. I am gonna offer you guys a secret phrase that you just’re gonna should remark on this put up when it is on as an precise put up.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
So on the finish, we’ll do a giveaway for a e-book.
Sandra Sallin:
I’ve already ordered yours.
Peg
Thanks. I respect that. What does authenticity imply to you in your put up? And the way is that? I feel you already answered that one since you talked about the way you’re simply speaking to at least one particular person. So confidence on digicam is not straightforward for most individuals. What has helped construct yours? And what recommendation would you share for anybody who’s digicam shy?
Sandra Sallin (?):
It truly is speaking to anyone over lunch. That it is that I actually am speaking. I actually really feel like I am speaking to an individual. I am not. That is about it. Yeah. Sort of consider it as speaking to at least one particular person. You are not speaking to hundreds. However for those who’re simply speaking to at least one particular person and having lunch and giving them concepts and having backwards and forwards, regardless that there isn’t any backwards and forwards. But it surely’s the way in which I’d discuss to anyone. Yeah.
Sandra Sallin:
When was the final time I went out to lunch?
Peg: July?
Sandra Sallin (?):
I do not know if it was that in July. Proper. It was with you.
Peg:
I visited Sandra in July, everyone. And we went out to lunch and it was the very best. So that you’re always studying and mastering new abilities, which I feel lots of people say, , anyone who’s not a millennial or above, that it is simply past them. However so what’s your secret to staying curious and open to evolving tech?
Sandra Sallin (?):
I’d say that it is simply being curious. I have been, I, , I am going down deep darkish holes, , to seek out the solutions to issues. And abruptly I will be, I will learn some little factor. What was it? The newest was the, the, I have been studying a sequence of books by Robert Dugani and I wished to know his background. And so I will go deep, deep, deep, deep, deep and, and discover, discover out issues that no person is aware of about.
I used to be a beta tester and this needed to be 20, 30 years in the past. Love discovering, I consider a pc as being like this wizard and I find it irresistible and discovering out how one can do new issues, I discover it very thrilling. Imply, did not come out, am I too shut?
Peg:
I am in all probability too shut. We’re like leaning in to speak to one another. It’s very nice.
Sandra Sallin:
So once I did, so being a beta tester, I discover, as I say, pc and the iPhone similar to a wizard. I’ve acquired magic in my arms. And so I wish to know extra and to have the ability to do extra. I find it irresistible. Imply, I discuss my Photoshop, Instagram, and Instagram is not straightforward. And what else? Video enhancing. My god. That is laborious.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Video enhancing is without doubt one of the hardest issues I feel.
Sandra Sallin (?):
To be trustworthy, I feel it’s too. So do you, wait, I simply had a query. I completely misplaced my practice of thought that I used to be gonna ask you. From Beta. Possibly it will come again to me. You understand how issues are available your head after which they’re gone? That simply occurred.
Peg Fitzpatrick (12:10.542):
So you’ve got constructed actually nice connections within the magnificence with magnificence influencers and different YouTubers, which I feel has helped you develop quite a bit. What’s your method to reaching out and the way do you suggest others make these connections?
Sandra Sallin (?):
You understand, I consider them, different folks or different folks as actual folks and I do not do it to make use of folks.
Sandra Sallin (?):
But when anyone has an incredible wanting outfit, I will not simply give a coronary heart or a verify or a thumbs up. I will actually say one thing. I relate to Hannah Martin and her attractive youngsters. I could by no means discuss her make-up, however I do discuss her youngsters. And possibly she’s placing an excessive amount of emphasis on the brand new, , on Bo and possibly she must be doing extra on Bear. I imply, I discuss, , I discuss to folks on an actual stage versus a pc stage and simply the outside stage that I see. I try to see extra than simply what’s in, , simply the image. Like I simply noticed Linda, proper? How can Linda, proper, is a really, very fashionable lady who has a store in Paris and attire so nice and so I discuss, , how, possibly you must begin carrying burlap sack.
Sandra Sallin:
I imply, it is sufficient that you just’re so attractive. And why does anyone want a Dior pair of blue denims? I am positive no person talked to her that approach. However I talked to her in a approach, , in an actual approach. And that is how I feel I’ve gotten.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Depart genuine, like true feedback, not similar to a coronary heart and a like and a very quick factor that actually anyone may say that is not actually significant.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
It doesn’t suggest something. Proper. You will need to do this. So yeah, for those who guys like folks’s content material, just be sure you’re giving them like considerate feedback which might be greater than three phrases. YouTube, not YouTube, however Instagram actually does have a look at that. Like what number of conversations you are having in direct messages with folks, they have a look at all of these issues once they resolve who to point out issues to. So it helps folks quite a bit. And because the algorithms maintain us from seeing folks. Like generally I’ve to go get hold of individuals who I like as a result of they are not displaying up in my feed. Then I actually guarantee that I am going to these folks. You are able to do just like the little bell or star on any of the social platforms to be sure you see all of individuals’s content material.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yep, anyone stated. I do know what you imply. Sure, I’ve accomplished that.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Yeah, you are able to do the little bell or the little star that exhibits you, so that you see all of somebody’s posts. Since you do not see stuff anymore. It is so laborious. After which I am like, You understand, I have never seen so-and-so’s stuff in a very long time. Like Hannah Martin, we’ll simply maintain speaking about Hannah Martin, as a result of I like her too. However I imply, I’ve commented on her stuff a bunch. know, I despatched her, know, like, shared her stuff earlier than. After which generally I simply do not even see it. And I do know she’s posting on a regular basis.
Sandra Sallin:
She is. I simply noticed one thing this morning and thought, effectively, I missed one thing on Sunday.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Yeah, proper. I feel a part of that’s proper now due to all of the politics stuff. I feel all of the advert spends on stuff is taking over quite a lot of the algorithm house, which stinks. You are proper. I’ve thought that possibly it should get again to regular ish, however who is aware of?
Peg:
Constructing an internet group the place folks really feel seen as uncommon, what has been probably the most rewarding a part of bringing folks collectively by way of your content material? As a result of you could have quite a lot of commenting in your YouTube movies and your Instagram.
Sandra Sallin:
You understand, I’m very moved that I’ve helped individuals who, , they see me at 83 subsequent month, 84. Do you imagine the 12 months after that I will be 85? God, I do imagine it. imagine you are simply going to maintain going eternally, my God.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Wait, what was I going say? So folks see me. So folks see me they usually see me doing ridiculous issues or simply being me. And this lady was writing that she was a realtor.
Sandra Sallin (?):
And she or he thought, effectively, I am 65, so I must retire as a result of I do not, I am not going to do something anymore. After which she noticed my movies and he or she thought, my God, this lady is in her eighties and he or she’s doing issues and he or she’s energetic and he or she wears make-up and he or she’s on the market. , she stated, what? I finished, I went out of retirement. I began carrying make-up and I went again to work. so, sure.
Peg Fitzpatrick (16:58.766):
And that is, is not that phenomenal? really feel like 65 is outdated at this level, proper? Imply, we’ve got much more outdated, , as a result of there are individuals who retire at 25 and there are individuals who, are they going to do? I am like, what are you going to do for 60 years?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, I am with you, however it’s when folks, that is why I additionally discuss my well being. I would like folks to know that I do not dwell in some good world. That I’ve acquired my points, no person’s life is ideal. That is why I allow them to see me wanting ridiculous. was taking a look at one thing the opposite day and I might had a basal cell most cancers on my brow and I see me with an enormous bandage right here and an enormous bandage there and I believed, know, let folks see what it is actually like.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
You understand, I do know the place you could have scars and I by no means ever, ever discover them on something on-line. I by no means see them.
Sandra Sallin (?):
To be trustworthy, I do not even take note of them. Do not. They’re so, I feel it is similar to getting previous that. As a result of I feel one of many issues if you’re filming your self quite a bit and also you’re on Instagram quite a bit and YouTube a
your self quite a bit, you are taking a look at your self quite a bit and it’s totally unnatural. Such as you will be actually overly vital and be like, what, I am not gonna movie myself as a result of my face appears just a little puffy right now or like, , 1,000,000 issues. And it is like, what, I simply, I do not even care about that anymore as a result of that is what I appear to be right now, everyone like, hey, I really feel prefer it’s a very good model of me. We’re by no means gonna be good. There is no good.
Sandra Sallin (?):
My husband, the producer director, I made a video and I simply sat down right here and I did not have any gentle. I do not even know if the sunshine is sweet proper now. I simply sat down right here and I did this video. I regarded horrible, however the video did so effectively. My husband stated, I by no means need you to take a seat down and do a video and appear to be that. And no person cares. And I did not care. I nonetheless do not.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Effectively, Bob is the very best. Sandra’s husband, Bob, he is a legend. He’s a legend. And he is so nice with filming as a result of he has had a really lengthy profession in Hollywood doing all totally different sorts of issues, writing, producing. However principally he is Sandra’s secret weapon behind the scenes. Proper.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You are so fortunate that approach. I did two level lighting right now, so we’ll see how mine is. You had California sunshine. I look darkish or not, however anyway, I did it myself. Effectively, you will discover out later.
Peg Fitzpatrick (19:22.378):
You are so proper. I? Sure, you are proper. Completely acquired kicked off Instagram. That is week two. So that’s not cool. I will attempt to add Sandra again in once more and I will end up our Instagram dwell the place we’re speaking about authenticity and right here we go I am including being on-line and being your self and the way that connects with folks. So I do not know why Instagram, that is the second time you could have bumped me off whereas I am dwell. Sorry, Sandra, that’s week two the place I acquired like simply randomly knocked off. Sandra acquired knocked off, I am gonna add her in once more. Instagram just isn’t loving us right now, whats up. I carry on seeing this white display that claims request to be on this dwell video. Effectively, you are dwell now.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Now we’re again dwell. I do not know why that occurred two weeks in a row. Now you simply popped out once more. I will pull you again in. Instagram is preventing us with every thing it has. Possibly Sandra’s web is not nice. I am not likely positive, however I am attempting so as to add her again in. OK. I do not know why it retains knocking you off, however I am gonna override it and maintain bringing you again in. How dare they? kidding. So I can not see myself. All I see is a white display saying-
Peg;
However you’re dwell. I can see you and also you’re dwell now. Then let’s simply do it and I can not see myself, which might be nice. I might love to not see myself proper now. So earlier than we get kicked off once more, I am gonna do a giveaway of my e-book. So that you guys, in case you are watching now, the key phrase is social success, which I will present you social success. So when that is posted, you simply must remark within the feedback and say social success and simply say one factor that you just appreciated about this Instagram dwell with Sandra and I, and you will be entered tomorrow.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I’ll select a winner. You do have to be in the US as a result of delivery is exorbitant lately. I went to ship a e-book and it was $12 and that was within the U.S. I used to be like, geez, put up workplace. I do not understand how Amazon does it. However have a look at how a lot a is. Is not it 79 cents? is. One thing loopy. is. Completely loopy. the place had been we? We talked about constructing your group. We’re on constructing your group and the way commenting and simply constructing the group. Effectively, it helps your content material develop as a result of when folks remark,
Peg Fitzpatrick (22:23.31):
And so if you’re on YouTube, what are your methods for constructing your group? Do you could have any?
Sandra Sallin:
I want I did. I must learn your e-book. I do not assume I’ve a technique. I try to be as trustworthy as I can. I am not trustworthy. I do make-up, however then I get bored. And what did I just lately do? I did a factor about how I misplaced weight.
Sandra Sallin:
And about how I am exercising. However I feel persons are loving that.
Peg:
Persons are loving that you just’re strolling and also you’re sharing it. And folks do not know how hilly your neighborhood is. Sandra’s neighbor just isn’t like Little Hills is. She’s in like a, she’s on a mountain form of, proper? Aren’t you?
Sandra:
I imply, simply the opposite day I did my final of doing all of those hills and I believed to myself, after which I used to be presupposed to exit at night time and I believed, I do not know if I can do it. I actually.
Sandra Sallin:
However that is nice. I imply, if I wish to breathe, all I’ve to do is stroll. It is like magic.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Sure, little issues like that. However folks have actually loved it. In order that’s why I believed, effectively, I will inform folks about how I have been in a position to shed pounds. As a result of we are able to all, we are able to all, all of us have the identical downside. All of us have that weight to lose. All of us must train. And the way many people do it?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
One other beauty of you is that you just actually keep on high of all of your physician appointments, which I feel is admittedly necessary for folks to go to the physician and comply with the physician’s recommendation. You understand, I feel lots of people do not do this.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I feel, yeah, I feel possibly when folks become old, such as you’re similar to, okay, I higher go for all these items.
Peg: However , folks complain about going for a mammogram, like how horrible it’s. I am like, , You gotta do it because- my God, do not, please. I imply, did you see the story I did about simply my newest mammogram?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yeah. The place I believed, I am nice, I am nice, I am nice. After which they are saying, effectively, we have to perform a little bit extra. And so they did uncover a cyst, but it surely’s not cancerous. However what if I hadn’t gone?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I do know. You must do it, everyone. And it is October, so it is breast most cancers consciousness month. One factor that you may study from that is please go get your mammograms and sustain in your physician appointments. Go to the dentist every year. Like that is one other factor folks do not take into consideration as a dentist.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, I am going to the dentist twice a 12 months. Do you go twice a 12 months?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I am going twice. I am going each six months.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I’ve to go each three or 4 months.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
You do?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yeah. Effectively, trigger you’ve got acquired like your enamel well being is tied to your psychological well being. It is also tied to your coronary heart well being.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Actually?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Sure.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Wow.
Sandra Sallin (?):
It is very, they’re co-dependent.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Sure.
Sandra Sallin (?):
And , you may get infections in your mouth or in your coronary heart and it could possibly go to your, it is one thing. Do not take heed to me, however do take heed to me. You have to go.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Sure, make all of your appointments. Make each appointment that you want to make. Observe up on it and comply with the physician’s recommendation. Then you may thrive like Sandra. That is what I say.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Proper. Going to each physician identified to mankind. Effectively.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
What it’s a must to, we’ve got one physique. We solely get one physique.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You are proper. You are proper. However anyway, so I do not, I want I had been extra, however I am not. I actually do issues, do issues about what I really feel like doing. I might actually like to do extra about cooking, however they are not as in style.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Trigger your viewers is form of skilled in your pro-aging. And that is why they like your strolling. It is form of all tied with the identical factor. Similar to for me, folks actually comply with me for social media issues. And I additionally discuss being a author. And generally I share like different issues in my life, like little issues. But when I attempt to do make-up content material, assured folks can be like, no, thanks.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, I used to be considering of you this morning as I placed on the Pat McGrath powder beneath my eyes that you just insisted that I need to get.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
So sure, it is enjoyable although. get pleasure from it. You’ve got acquired nice make-up ideas. However somebody simply stated that they love seeing your kitchen if you cook dinner. You understand what, I additionally present, I do not understand how anyone can have a dirtier kitchen after they end cooking and even.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Judy says please cook dinner. Possibly folks do like your cooking.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, however I assume not sufficient. And I additionally haven’t got. I haven’t got the structure that is good for cooking. My husband desires them to see my face. And he does, sure, he is, know, he is, he is of the old-fashioned. You do not simply present the, the, why cannot I get this white factor gone? What if I-
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Peter McNally says, are these Zuck glasses, Sandra? she simply knocked herself out. I will pull her again in once more. The web is preventing and Sandra and I refuse to lose. Let’s examine if I can pull her in once more.
Peg Fitzpatrick (27:32.472):
To reply, assume these are simply common glass. I pulled you again in once more. Are your glasses ZEC glasses? do not assume, your glasses are common glasses, proper? They are not just like the, however they are not the meta glasses. They’re asking if in case you have the meta, the meta glasses with just like the stuff in them. do not even know what that’s. They’ve some tech glasses. Bear in mind when Google glass got here out they usually had the glasses the place you possibly can movie and stuff. Meta has a model of that now, which is hysterical as a result of Google already did it. After which Snapchat.
Sandra Sallin (?):
There was snap, bear in mind when there was Snapchat glasses? I do not even take note of that stuff.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Wayfarers. They only have common glasses. Okay, they need, he wished to know in the event that they had been wayfarers.
Sandra Sallin (?):
No, these are Warby Parker, and the fashion is Sonia. Yep. And you’ve got these in a few colours. Proper. I’ve acquired them in black and in tortoiseshell. Sure.
Peg Fitzpatrick (29:37.454):
I like them. I get extra feedback about my glasses. You’ll assume that Warby Parker may give me a pair without spending a dime? No.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You must contact them for a model partnership. I will aid you do this. We’ll do this offline.
Sandra Sallin:
Anyway, so sure, these are simply bifocals. I feel they work. Do away with, you do not see traces. As an alternative, you simply see possibly lips and glasses. I really feel like generally once I put on them that they, I do not know.
Peg: The laborious factor is if you do your make-up and also you spend a lot time and you set glasses on after which it immediately modifications your make-up. That’s irritating for me.
Sandra Sallin: Take a look at my eyeshadow that you may’t And the way I did my eyebrows. Yeah. Come on. And I did just a little little bit of lining beneath right here. You understand, the liner. You may’t, then you definitely put your glasses on and no person even sees it. That is irritating for me.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Proper. And I by no means put on them once I’m dwell. really feel like, I do not know, I get a glare or I do not know. I like my new glasses that I acquired, however I simply by no means put on mine on digicam. Even in pictures. I feel a part of it’s that for pictures, you all the time get some form of gentle glare or, Do I’ve a light-weight glare? No, you do not. However I’ve a hoop gentle on, so I positively would. Like, I’ve some, wait, I will seize, I’ve some, these are similar to peepers. We’ll see if I get them. If I do get, do I, see I get an enormous, yeah.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Okay, then possibly you want the 2 gentle factor.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I’ve the 2 gentle factor on proper now. However I am actually near my gentle ring, in order that might be a part of it.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Possibly that is it. Mine are over right here on the facet. I haven’t got something. The lights are over right here on the facet. Possibly that is why I am doing it improper.
Sandra Sallin:
Nothing in entrance of me. You must discuss to Bob. He’ll inform you what to do.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Positively ought to. Positively ought to. OK, so we’ll return right here. And I will ask you for those who may return and provides your self, your youthful self, one piece of recommendation. What would it not be?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Be extra, and have extra religion in your self. Be stronger. Have extra self-confidence. I might say that.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Yeah, that is a very good one. It positively comes with age, does not it? I feel 20s and 30s are a really laborious time since you’re so laborious on your self, and you’re feeling like your life has all these deadlines. I imply, you bought married younger, however I imply, typically…
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, I acquired married younger too. And we picked nice husbands that we’re nonetheless married. Sure.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Peg’s husband is a hoot. He is nice. He is very vibrant and he is a delight to be with.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I feel identical together with your husband. I feel a part of the factor is a very nice lesson. It issues a lot who you select to be your accomplice. Proper. It is so necessary. And you do not notice if you’re actually younger and also you’re selecting that particular person, you do not even know all of the issues that it is like, are they gonna be good at funds or a very good household particular person or good with children? You do not know any of these issues if you’re relationship folks.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I imply, my granddaughter is 22 years outdated. I acquired married once I simply turned 20. There is no such thing as a approach that I’d need my granddaughter getting married at that age. There’s a lot I do not know that I believed I knew all of it.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I do know. You positively, I feel that is the 18 to 24 possibly you assume every thing and also you’re infallible and well being issues, go to the physician, why trouble? These sorts of issues.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
No, I am with you. So I feel that I wanted to have extra self-confidence. Though it by no means stored me from doing commercials, beginning my profession, however I feel that I may have been…
Sandra Sallin (?):
Effectively, what? Wait a second. I am a lot older, and ladies weren’t… Are you aware we needed to have our husbands signal so we may get a bank card?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I used to be simply going to say that as a result of it is solely 50 years since girls may have a bank card. So that you had been really married. It was really simply the fiftieth anniversary of that. So that you had been really married if you could not have a bank card. Proper. It was an enormous deal to have your individual bank card. And the opposite factor was it was only the start of the girl’s motion. Yeah.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Look how far we have come, child. No, , we…
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
However I really feel like my era like dropped the ball on it. And now I really feel like these youthful ladies are completely selecting up and, and I’ve a lot religion within the Gen Z ladies which might be on the market. Like, , they’re actually good with like, they’re getting nearer to equal pay. Imply, males are preventing tooth and nail on equal pay.
Sandra Sallin (?):
That’s one thing that is ridiculous. And I believed, , there’s so many ways in which that might be gone at this level, , like simply hiring practices, even the web, like when the web got here out, , running a blog was highly regarded and no person may see who was running a blog. It ought to have been equal for women and men and for talking engagements and all of that. And once more, males, it was like males acquired all of the e-book offers, males acquired all of the talking engagements, males, , males’s blogs the place it is like, why, why, , it is simply, every thing is…
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Girls should do every thing that Ginger Rogers, , backwards and in heels. The opposite factor is, bear in mind if you did not give your actual title since you did not need them to know you had been feminine? So that you simply used initials, and I feel they nonetheless do. I imply, it is horrible.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yeah. And if you’re saying they used to do it, it even goes again to all the way in which again to love Louisa Might Alcott when she was writing books, had to make use of a faux title so they might purchase her e-book as a result of she was a girl.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
It goes approach again to love feminine writers.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Simply to your proper. However then why did we all know that it was a Louisa Might Alcott? She ultimately began utilizing her title as soon as her e-book was actually in style.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Any individual says, our favourite e-book that every of you could have learn this 12 months. That is a very good query. What’s your favourite? I’ve learn so many books. What was your favourite?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Extraordinary Lifetime of Sam Hale. I didn’t learn that one.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
That is by Robert Dugoni. That is how I began with him. After which I am studying thriller tales. I am having the very best time studying thriller tales. I simply learn, I simply completed a thriller.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I’ve simply completed…
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Have you ever learn any Laura Dave’s books?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Spell the final title.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
D-A-V-E Laura Dave.
Sandra Sallin (?):
No.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
The one I simply completed is The Evening We Misplaced Him. It is a thriller. They’re good. They’re good. I like actually could not put it down. I learn the entire thing. I am a quick reader. I learn the entire thing this weekend. I used to be like, wow.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I’ve to know what occurs. Perceive that. Simply wrote her title down. I will test it out.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
When you like thrillers, she’s acquired a few good ones. She acquired her first, I do not know if it was her first e-book, however one among her books was picked up in Reese Witherspoon’s e-book membership. So it was big and it was became that, right into a sequence on Apple with Jennifer Garner. So that is the e-book that she has after that.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Good for her.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Yeah, she’s checked out quite a lot of books.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You understand, it is like Reese Witherspoon, , we’re not speaking about social media, simply in case you had been . However have a look at all these girls who’ve these e-book golf equipment and purchase these books in order that they’ll produce them and that they’ll, , function girls, , as a result of who else desires to function girls?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I do know, Reese Witherspoon has actually accomplished quite a bit for that with beginning her manufacturing firm. And when she began it, I simply learn an article about it as a result of it was like,
Sandra Sallin (?):
the fifth anniversary, assume possibly of it. And she or he made no cash in any respect at first. And she or he stated, I had no concept how the manufacturing and labored in any respect on it. And so they had been like, do not ever, like all of her monetary advisors had been like, do not do that. However she was like, I must function girls. Want, folks have hearts and it could possibly’t all be the male perspective and the male cash and the, the tales have to be totally different advised by totally different folks. So she produced a few issues and it was like,
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
wild and one other one which was simply as massive and he or she, the corporate, manufacturing firm nonetheless made no cash. She was like, how does that occur? Like, this was like an enormous film. It takes, Hollywood is a loopy world over there with cash. Simply work out who someplace somebody’s making the cash, however who is aware of what that’s.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Proper. You understand, film will make billions of {dollars}, however we did not make any revenue. I do not understand how that occurs.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I do know it is form of the identical with books. I imply, you, you write a e-book. You you get upfront after which like my e-book, it is like, it is $30. I do not make $30 on it. I make, I do not even know precisely how a lot, but it surely’s in all probability like 350 or $4 possibly per e-book. We’re, know.
Sandra Sallin (?):
As an artist, you hand over 50%.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
50 %?
Sandra Sallin (?):
Yep.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Wow.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I do know. That is painful, proper?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Very.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Very.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
So why is the fee so excessive? As a result of I assume they should have an artwork gallery. They should, they should maintain a brick and mortar place going. That is, I’ve by no means heard of that fee that top. Imply, authors and also you we’ve got like 20%, , goes to your agent after which, , then it goes to, , there’s, people who find themselves taking a chunk out, however not 50%.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I actually assume it is as a result of they should have a brick and mortar place and that they should have, , openings. Imply, how a lot can that be for some wine? Proper? Yeah.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Loopy. Ought to in all probability get off since you and I may discuss for six hours this weekend.
Sandra Sallin (?):
We may discuss eternally. And I respect each single one that’s been watching. On this one, I am undecided if we even stated it, however I am doing a giveaway of my e-book. When you touch upon this one, there’s going to be two, sadly posts as a result of we acquired minimize off and now we’re again. I’ll save this one additionally. So remark social success on both one of many posts from our dwell video and I’ll select somebody tomorrow to get a signed copy and I’ll put up who the winner is.
Peg Fitzpatrick (42:15.886):
Tomorrow on my social channels. And somebody stated, Sandy, like to see you. Ship you like from Melbourne, UK. Your followers from everywhere in the world are saying hello.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Is not that fabulous? Thanks. However wait, one factor. Sure. Do folks know who you’re? Do they know?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
What sort of a social media knowledgeable you’re. Effectively, in the event that they comply with me.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Okay. Persons are commenting. It will possibly’t be within the feedback right here. It must be on it after I save this put up as a result of all of the feedback after we’re dwell really disappear. Once I reserve it, it saves as a brand new put up. Is not that loopy? However anyway, it saves as a brand new put up and all of the feedback within the dwell are gone.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
So that you really must touch upon the put up after I reserve it. So I will be there in only a second. However there’s one from the primary half. Silly Instagram. So I do not know, do you guys know who I’m? Are you right here from, I do not assume it exhibits after we’re dwell collectively. Once I regarded that up it stated no. However possibly persons are following you. When you guys do not know, I am Peg Fispatrick. I wrote this e-book, I wrote one other e-book. I have been working in social media for like 15 years, a really very long time.
Sandra Sallin (?):
And I like social media. So I really feel unhealthy for folks simply becoming a member of now as a result of we’re simply on the brink of head off. Sure, however you’ve got additionally represented folks and been their social media saviors and actually massive, massive folks. And you have taught folks how one can be, effectively, you’ve got accomplished their social media. You’re actually knowledgeable and other people ought to know that, that sure, you are actually, actually necessary.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
I do not know if I am necessary, however I have been doing it a very long time. I am fairly good at it, that is for positive. I’ve my 10,000 hours in for positive, regardless that that fable was dispelled.
Sandra Sallin (?):
What does 10,000 hours imply?
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Bear in mind the Malcolm Gladwell idea that anyone may get good at one thing in the event that they did it for 10,000 hours? I by no means began counting.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You could have your 10,000 hours in for those who depend all of your YouTube watching and commenting and…
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Assured you do since you’ve been doing this for a very very long time too.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You are proper, you are proper. Whenever you begin from if you began running a blog.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
You are proper. That was a very good 12 years in the past. You’ve got been doing this for a very long time. You weren’t a beginner, Sandra.
Sandra Sallin (?):
I really feel prefer it, although. On daily basis is a brand new day.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
To be trustworthy, it is like that for everybody in social media as a result of stuff modifications. it’s recent. It is all recent and new. So thrilling. Effectively, I will finish this as a result of we’ve got been on a very long time and I actually respect your time. When you guys are following me and you are not following Sandra, please just be sure you comply with her and take a look at her superb Instagram and her YouTube channel, which is implausible. And in case you are following her Instagram, you must 100% be following her for her longer content material on YouTube. You must comply with her on each as a result of it isn’t the identical precise factor.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Thanks very a lot. I respect that little plug.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Effectively, , I feel folks do not understand generally that they are following folks on a regular basis and they won’t notice that hopefully they notice however your YouTube channel is your longer kind content material. So it is extra Sandra.
Sandra Sallin (?):
You are proper. Extra Sandra. And you’ll watch no matter you need. Video on demand.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
You are proper. Yeah. So I will finish and I thanks guys for watching. And subsequent week might be recorded after which we’ve got two or three, I feel I’ve three extra dwell on this sequence. So it will be Tuesdays at one o’clock Jap. 10 o’clock.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Thanks a lot. Western. And I’ll see you guys later. Thanks.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Thanks, Peg. It is all the time enjoyable.
Sandra Sallin (?):
Completely. Bye.
Peg Fitzpatrick (?):
Bye.
